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In all those 40+ years I got so used to just be the odd one, the weird underdog or whatever, who was so goddamn lonely because I was never able to “appropriat", "url": "https://borderlinereminders.tumblr.com/post/827016748434898944", "published_at": "2026-09-06T14:23:52+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08757-9eaf-7023-a9a2-8e98306ac676", "title": "I think you’re assuming this means the other person should never be held accountable, and that isn’t…", "url": "https://borderlinereminders.tumblr.com/post/827016613498847232", "published_at": "2026-09-06T14:21:43+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08757-9eb0-71a7-a0d4-c6fb474313c1", "title": "Feeling abandoned and actually being abandoned are not always the same thing. 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Am I just going to be thinking this way forever but ignoring the thoughts or talking myself down? Or will they go away?original ↗

24 Sept 2026

Decide 10: A Relationship Tool I Found to be Helpful original ↗

22 Sept 2026

Why would you say yes if it harms you?? Like it’s valid to say no if something harms you original ↗

20 Sept 2026

I read some hate tonight on my personal blog. And I’m not mad about it but reading it made me feel…original ↗

17 Sept 2026

BPD self-help resources original ↗

17 Sept 2026

You can lose access to loving feelings without losing the love itself.original ↗

16 Sept 2026

Ask the question without hiding an accusation inside it.original ↗

15 Sept 2026

You don’t have to reject yourself before they get the chance.original ↗

14 Sept 2026

Apologizing quickly isn’t always the same as taking accountability.original ↗

13 Sept 2026

You did it!original ↗

8 Sept 2026

do you have any tips for someone who tends to overreact when someone’s tone over text feels off but they’re actually fine it’s just that they aren’t reacting the way you assumed they would or expected they might? Like I try to predict peoples texts and if they don’t say something similar to my prediction (especially if it’s my fp) I will spiral and spilt on them and idk where to start on working on this original ↗

6 Sept 2026

I just want you to know how much your posts have helped / are helping me. I might not share the diagnosis and yet so many of the things you write reflect my experience to the point that i am sometimes just processing for a minute before i can go on. And i have never in my entire life felt such kinship and understanding even towards myself. In all those 40+ years I got so used to just be the odd one, the weird underdog or whatever, who was so goddamn lonely because I was never able to “appropriat original ↗

6 Sept 2026

I think you’re assuming this means the other person should never be held accountable, and that isn’t…original ↗

6 Sept 2026

Feeling abandoned and actually being abandoned are not always the same thing. Your fear is real and…original ↗

5 Sept 2026

Gathering Your Grounding Tools original ↗

4 Sept 2026

Noticing a shift in someone’s behaviour doesn’t automatically make you paranoid or needy. And while…original ↗

4 Sept 2026

Achievement Unlocked: Hope Not Required.original ↗

27 Aug 2026

It can be really frustrating when you know you’re splitting and that awareness doesn’t make the…original ↗

26 Aug 2026

Sometimes you might realize that your BPD made a situation feel much bigger than it was, and still…original ↗

25 Aug 2026

The Relationship I Want to Build original ↗

24 Aug 2026

Achievement Unlocked!original ↗

24 Aug 2026

Progress with BPD doesn’t always mean you stop having the intense emotional reaction. Personally, I…original ↗

23 Aug 2026

I agree that there are situations where both people have things they need to take accountability…original ↗

22 Aug 2026

Sometimes accountability is figuring out what you’re going to do differently next time.original ↗

22 Aug 2026

I just wanted to say thank you so much, I don’t think I have bpd myself but I definitely have trauma, and even as an outsider your posts have helped me understand boundaries and communication so much better! And they’ve also been very helpful in understanding my loved ones with bpd. Thank you so much for all your work, it really makes a difference ❤️❤️original ↗

21 Aug 2026

Hi, thank you so much for this page and all of your hard work. I need help. Because I get scared of my partner with BPD sometimes and I don’t know how to point out he is being mean to me. How do I point it out to him? I want to help him but I don’t know how to help him.original ↗

21 Aug 2026

Weird update, but my business partner and I might be separating so Flappy Happy might just be me…original ↗

21 Aug 2026

The biggest thing I feel I need to work on is the anxiety of upsetting people.original ↗

21 Aug 2026

Decide 10: A Relationship Tool I Found to be Helpful original ↗

21 Aug 2026