56,966 blogs · [ { "id": "01a0967d-be29-7317-8f09-0e8416310aab", "title": "a lot of y'all that pride yourselves on justice are incurious as to WHY a perpetrator of abuse did…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827568386340962304", "published_at": "2026-09-12T16:31:55+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-8643361cb666", "title": "i read a post by someone detailing some horrible thing that happened to them and im just like this…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827526621111189504", "published_at": "2026-09-12T05:28:04+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433692b7bc", "title": "It’s a scary time to be a trans girl but sometimes I look back throughout human history and think…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827526497895104512", "published_at": "2026-09-12T05:26:07+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-8643369aa6b1", "title": "Having gone into the “pro transmisogyny” tag:", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827506314934730752", "published_at": "2026-09-12T00:05:19+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-864337769b96", "title": "vrag-veshtica:gentlerainmorninghush:arabbara:\nR.I.P. The 2976 American people that lost their lives...", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827504248199725057", "published_at": "2026-09-11T23:32:28+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-864337a539f2", "title": "That he/himmler post is really making these white supremacy girlies show their racist antisemitic…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827500455283310592", "published_at": "2026-09-11T22:32:10+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-8643388ab955", "title": "my dear Yidden, I have just learned that 5787 maximizes absolutely every extra day possible in the…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827498868099973120", "published_at": "2026-09-11T22:06:57+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-864338ded8f8", "title": "if you’re trans and you have kids, start a tradition, let them choose new names on their 18th…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827498470842777600", "published_at": "2026-09-11T22:00:38+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-864339affb54", "title": "woke 3.0, pragmatic woke", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827496428778799104", "published_at": "2026-09-11T21:28:11+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433a177250", "title": "Jewish person: *does literally anything*", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827494842923991040", "published_at": "2026-09-11T21:02:58+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433a524d9b", "title": "hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827489098373693440", "published_at": "2026-09-11T19:31:40+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433b0cd98a", "title": "some of y'all’s politics is just RSD and its greying your hairs at 23", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827446728907161600", "published_at": "2026-09-11T08:18:13+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433bc7c0a6", "title": "hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827441247019024384", "published_at": "2026-09-11T06:51:05+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433c7a06c8", "title": "just a short note, but whenever this subject comes up, the difference seems to come down to nothing…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827422714098827264", "published_at": "2026-09-11T01:56:31+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433d08b865", "title": "I feel like a parent arguing with a child of mine in college studying the same thing I did in…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827415612194242560", "published_at": "2026-09-11T00:03:38+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433d1dfbe0", "title": "white trans women", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827414795536990208", "published_at": "2026-09-10T23:50:39+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433d4ebe00", "title": "nuance is your idol and that’s the problem, its your IDOL", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827414740036927488", "published_at": "2026-09-10T23:49:46+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433d5a47fa", "title": "aha! got you! you used a word – that means, regardless of context, you hold the beliefs I associate with that word! I win! :3 ok but real talk every time I see interlocution like this I think of an old saying that has haunted and informed me since I heard it: you can set out to play chess with a pigeon, but you can’t stop the pigeon from knocking over pieces, shitting all over the board, and then strutting about like he’s won.", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827412454498828288", "published_at": "2026-09-10T23:13:26+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433d783bbb", "title": "Adding some thoughts onto this excellent dialogue, especially regarding what is classified as “TERF…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827406163915227136", "published_at": "2026-09-10T21:33:27+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433e30c539", "title": "please stop using a vague references to black and POC trans experiences as a way to insist on trans…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827405952696401921", "published_at": "2026-09-10T21:30:06+00:00" }, { "id": "01a09548-0efa-711f-a96b-86433f1cdee6", "title": "I stand with my canceled wife idgaf", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827404243601358848", "published_at": "2026-09-10T21:02:56+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3cdf-738c-b0e9-22174f9e6310", "title": "i cant believe i started estrogen 7 years ago today (and officially came out 11 years ago today) on…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827399557044453376", "published_at": "2026-09-10T19:48:26+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce0-714a-bcbb-2b8fc406c912", "title": "Tumblr is like 90% white Americans and given America is currently having a huge white supremacy…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827398442613620736", "published_at": "2026-09-10T19:30:44+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce0-714a-bcbb-2b8fc4b8b574", "title": "Calling it now, Jae has to be a distant descendant of Aang and Katara. the grey eyes are distinctly…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827390786276655104", "published_at": 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basis behind my posts on gender are from my sociology background as I…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827356287590432768", "published_at": "2026-09-10T08:20:41+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905ca9b1fd", "title": "when you see the cat and you smile", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827349021092954112", "published_at": "2026-09-10T06:25:12+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905ce7777a", "title": "thinking about how mere community association and aesthetic preference outs AGAB often but we just…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827338189989724160", "published_at": "2026-09-10T03:33:02+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905d995531", "title": "She rosh on my hashana until I brrrrrrrrrr brrrrr brrrrr br br br br br br br br br brrrrrrrrrr…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827337844834123776", "published_at": "2026-09-10T03:27:33+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905e5c341a", "title": "it’s always antisemitism with these folks, predictable, unacceptable. they should be run out of…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827336554016014336", "published_at": "2026-09-10T03:07:02+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905f5b80f3", "title": "It is reallyyy interesting that articles keep saying Gen Z women don’t want to have children because…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827336211730481152", "published_at": "2026-09-10T03:01:36+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79905fa9dac4", "title": "lol", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827323005246046208", "published_at": "2026-09-09T23:31:41+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-79906055ac38", "title": "usually if it were a regular service it would be 30 minutes ahead of course, but im suprised they do…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827318163521880064", "published_at": "2026-09-09T22:14:44+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-7990613735c9", "title": "i got emailed by my temple because I decided after 4 years to become a member and they immediately…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827315958368632833", "published_at": "2026-09-09T21:39:41+00:00" }, { "id": "01a08cea-3ce1-728b-86a0-7990619c65e4", "title": "good news: rosh hashannah is on shabbat this year!\n\nbad news:", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827314395710406656", "published_at": "2026-09-09T21:14:50+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc72dada52", "title": "this generation’s insistence that physical touch of any kind is bad is the northern tendency towards…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827310697568485376", "published_at": "2026-09-09T20:16:03+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc73477ae8", "title": "person who regularly experiences touch starvation: hi yeah I’m upset because my partner is touch…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827310166810771456", "published_at": "2026-09-09T20:07:37+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc739f7554", "title": "Everyday I care less on what would gender binary people think. And so you should too", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827307917928693760", "published_at": "2026-09-09T19:31:53+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7491228a", "title": "tumblr may be flawed but at least i don’t have to see some antisemetic microagression in literally…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827307044914741248", "published_at": "2026-09-09T19:18:00+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc74c59487", "title": "another important question…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827303793681186816", "published_at": "2026-09-09T18:26:19+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc759e532a", "title": "hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827303596889636864", "published_at": "2026-09-09T18:23:12+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc767c0e0f", "title": "you’ve got to be normal about the concept of gender socialization existing. I don’t care if you see…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827298020558356480", "published_at": "2026-09-09T16:54:34+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc76adb179", "title": "and guess what that map overlaps with pretty well", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827245697233551361", "published_at": "2026-09-09T03:02:54+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc77a3bcc5", "title": null, "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827245603349299200", "published_at": "2026-09-09T03:01:25+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7805bbd8", "title": "I don’t know if you got any similar kind of asks yet, but honestly I think the way I related most to transfem ppl (but struggled to find the language to convey it without sounding transphobic/unpacking some transmisogynistic assumptions inherent in the way I could conceptualize it before) has been that, as someone who has been fat for a good part of my life now, essentially that I was being treated like I’m in drag whenever I performed any femininity/experiencing degendering (I’m bigender) ½?", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827236158881873920", "published_at": "2026-09-09T00:31:18+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc78f50d6f", "title": "I feel disconnected from other trans people overall bc I just don’t relate to the “typical” journey, both the social side and the physical (intersex). The only envy I’ve felt for trans women & transfems is that I see them in social groups more often? Like, *most* (obv. Not all) of them I know have a lot of friends like them & there’s a lot of them around in the communities I’m in & they’re vocal and public about their experiences and I’m both very happy for them but also feel keenly alone. I don", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827234496546996224", "published_at": "2026-09-09T00:04:52+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc79cf73f3", "title": "reading a lot of these asks it seems like a lot of people had different ideas of what I meant by…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827233983175786496", "published_at": "2026-09-08T23:56:43+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7ac98f1d", "title": "I met and married my husband, a cis, bisexual man, before I came out and started transitioning and there was a period right before my egg cracked that I’m deeply ashamed of where I was disrespectful of his boundaries regarding his sexual history and it was after my egg cracking that I realized this came from a deep well of jealously and resentment that he had relationships with other men that felt impossible and closed off to me because of my body and imposed social role Even my decent sexual e", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827232785848827904", "published_at": "2026-09-08T23:37:41+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7b201500", "title": "Black trans man here! I’ve adapted the mindset that all my feelings are valid but my reactions to those feelings may not be, so I’m not ashamed to say I have experienced jealousy towards trans women being hypervisible and trans men being invisible, but I realize that it’s a double edged sword on both sides. There is no peace for either group of people when our visibility is usually only linked to our opression; trans womens hyper visibility being used to paint them as monsters, and trans mens in", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827232418342764544", "published_at": "2026-09-08T23:31:51+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7bd180b6", "title": "the “new normal” couldve been respirators & rapid tests & hepa filters & universal basic income &…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827227005726654464", "published_at": "2026-09-08T22:05:49+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7c30fe08", "title": "Hello white queer, you challenge is to not compare another queer person you dislike to actual Nazis…", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827224862658641920", "published_at": "2026-09-08T21:31:45+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7c922097", "title": "I saw your post asking transmascs if they’ve ever been jealous of trans women, and I’m too scared to say it publicly because I feel like I’ll get flamed for it since it’s not really smth that feels nice or appropriate to say and definitely has a twist of transphobia in it, but I absolutely have had jealousy for trans women. It was probably the most prevalent early in my process of feeling out my gender identity, especially before I knew I was really trans and before I solidly pinpointed my feeli", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827223084071288832", "published_at": "2026-09-08T21:03:29+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7c9b023b", "title": "admittedly? a little. there is… a sort of envy of someone looking exactly like you would kill for to and a discomfort in knowing that theyre unhappy with something you’d cherish.\n\nActually i’ve had this conversation with my girlfriend before and we both really hit on something together when I was lamenting the fact that I wasn’t allowed to grow up as a boy any more than she was allowed to grow up as a girl. \n\nThat she would’ve killed for some of the experiences that she can both admit are deeply", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827221066732666880", "published_at": "2026-09-08T20:31:25+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7d6ca0ee", "title": "Just realized I didn’t answer the inspiration part: While I’m definitely not jealous of trans women I’ve definitely been inspired by them. Especially other artists in a collaborative sense. I think a lot of queer art invites a conversation.", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827219608116314112", "published_at": "2026-09-08T20:08:14+00:00" }, { "id": "01a087e3-391f-7328-ac88-ecfc7d8b9e57", "title": "Never a trans woman or a transfemme person. Definitely cis queer men. But I don’t really get jealous of other people in a resentful way. If I see something I admire/want, I just make a plan to achieve it. I save all my true craziness by putting a lot of perfectionist pressure on myself and getting competitive professionally. And really not about other people but my own standards. Was that helpful?", "url": "https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827217312907214848", "published_at": "2026-09-08T19:31:45+00:00" } ] posts Claim your blog

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It’s a scary time to be a trans girl but sometimes I look back throughout human history and think…original ↗

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Having gone into the “pro transmisogyny” tag:original ↗

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vrag-veshtica:gentlerainmorninghush:arabbara: R.I.P. The 2976 American people that lost their lives...original ↗

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That he/himmler post is really making these white supremacy girlies show their racist antisemitic…original ↗

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my dear Yidden, I have just learned that 5787 maximizes absolutely every extra day possible in the…original ↗

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if you’re trans and you have kids, start a tradition, let them choose new names on their 18th…original ↗

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woke 3.0, pragmatic woke original ↗

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Jewish person: *does literally anything*original ↗

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hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…original ↗

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some of y'all’s politics is just RSD and its greying your hairs at 23 original ↗

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hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…original ↗

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just a short note, but whenever this subject comes up, the difference seems to come down to nothing…original ↗

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I feel like a parent arguing with a child of mine in college studying the same thing I did in…original ↗

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white trans women original ↗

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nuance is your idol and that’s the problem, its your IDOL original ↗

10 Sept 2026

aha! got you! you used a word – that means, regardless of context, you hold the beliefs I associate with that word! I win! :3 ok but real talk every time I see interlocution like this I think of an old saying that has haunted and informed me since I heard it: you can set out to play chess with a pigeon, but you can’t stop the pigeon from knocking over pieces, shitting all over the board, and then strutting about like he’s won.original ↗

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Adding some thoughts onto this excellent dialogue, especially regarding what is classified as “TERF…original ↗

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please stop using a vague references to black and POC trans experiences as a way to insist on trans…original ↗

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I stand with my canceled wife idgaf original ↗

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i cant believe i started estrogen 7 years ago today (and officially came out 11 years ago today) on…original ↗

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Tumblr is like 90% white Americans and given America is currently having a huge white supremacy…original ↗

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Calling it now, Jae has to be a distant descendant of Aang and Katara. the grey eyes are distinctly…original ↗

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if the connections to the past lives were somehow restored:original ↗

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please remember to take a breather and log off, hate and outrage are addictive and the frequency of…original ↗

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TWIN AVATARS LETS GOOOO original ↗

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I should also say a lot of the basis behind my posts on gender are from my sociology background as I…original ↗

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when you see the cat and you smile original ↗

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thinking about how mere community association and aesthetic preference outs AGAB often but we just…original ↗

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She rosh on my hashana until I brrrrrrrrrr brrrrr brrrrr br br br br br br br br br brrrrrrrrrr…original ↗

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it’s always antisemitism with these folks, predictable, unacceptable. they should be run out of…original ↗

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It is reallyyy interesting that articles keep saying Gen Z women don’t want to have children because…original ↗

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lol original ↗

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usually if it were a regular service it would be 30 minutes ahead of course, but im suprised they do…original ↗

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i got emailed by my temple because I decided after 4 years to become a member and they immediately…original ↗

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good news: rosh hashannah is on shabbat this year! bad news:original ↗

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this generation’s insistence that physical touch of any kind is bad is the northern tendency towards…original ↗

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person who regularly experiences touch starvation: hi yeah I’m upset because my partner is touch…original ↗

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Everyday I care less on what would gender binary people think. And so you should too original ↗

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tumblr may be flawed but at least i don’t have to see some antisemetic microagression in literally…original ↗

9 Sept 2026

another important question…original ↗

9 Sept 2026

hello my followers and anyone else who found their way here… I have a very important question…original ↗

9 Sept 2026

you’ve got to be normal about the concept of gender socialization existing. I don’t care if you see…original ↗

9 Sept 2026

and guess what that map overlaps with pretty well original ↗

9 Sept 2026

https://solacryptic.tumblr.com/post/827245603349299200 original ↗

9 Sept 2026

I don’t know if you got any similar kind of asks yet, but honestly I think the way I related most to transfem ppl (but struggled to find the language to convey it without sounding transphobic/unpacking some transmisogynistic assumptions inherent in the way I could conceptualize it before) has been that, as someone who has been fat for a good part of my life now, essentially that I was being treated like I’m in drag whenever I performed any femininity/experiencing degendering (I’m bigender) ½?original ↗

9 Sept 2026

I feel disconnected from other trans people overall bc I just don’t relate to the “typical” journey, both the social side and the physical (intersex). The only envy I’ve felt for trans women & transfems is that I see them in social groups more often? Like, *most* (obv. Not all) of them I know have a lot of friends like them & there’s a lot of them around in the communities I’m in & they’re vocal and public about their experiences and I’m both very happy for them but also feel keenly alone. I don original ↗

9 Sept 2026

reading a lot of these asks it seems like a lot of people had different ideas of what I meant by…original ↗

8 Sept 2026

I met and married my husband, a cis, bisexual man, before I came out and started transitioning and there was a period right before my egg cracked that I’m deeply ashamed of where I was disrespectful of his boundaries regarding his sexual history and it was after my egg cracking that I realized this came from a deep well of jealously and resentment that he had relationships with other men that felt impossible and closed off to me because of my body and imposed social role Even my decent sexual e original ↗

8 Sept 2026

Black trans man here! I’ve adapted the mindset that all my feelings are valid but my reactions to those feelings may not be, so I’m not ashamed to say I have experienced jealousy towards trans women being hypervisible and trans men being invisible, but I realize that it’s a double edged sword on both sides. There is no peace for either group of people when our visibility is usually only linked to our opression; trans womens hyper visibility being used to paint them as monsters, and trans mens in original ↗

8 Sept 2026

the “new normal” couldve been respirators & rapid tests & hepa filters & universal basic income &…original ↗

8 Sept 2026

Hello white queer, you challenge is to not compare another queer person you dislike to actual Nazis…original ↗

8 Sept 2026

I saw your post asking transmascs if they’ve ever been jealous of trans women, and I’m too scared to say it publicly because I feel like I’ll get flamed for it since it’s not really smth that feels nice or appropriate to say and definitely has a twist of transphobia in it, but I absolutely have had jealousy for trans women. It was probably the most prevalent early in my process of feeling out my gender identity, especially before I knew I was really trans and before I solidly pinpointed my feeli original ↗

8 Sept 2026

admittedly? a little. there is… a sort of envy of someone looking exactly like you would kill for to and a discomfort in knowing that theyre unhappy with something you’d cherish. Actually i’ve had this conversation with my girlfriend before and we both really hit on something together when I was lamenting the fact that I wasn’t allowed to grow up as a boy any more than she was allowed to grow up as a girl. That she would’ve killed for some of the experiences that she can both admit are deeply original ↗

8 Sept 2026

Just realized I didn’t answer the inspiration part: While I’m definitely not jealous of trans women I’ve definitely been inspired by them. Especially other artists in a collaborative sense. I think a lot of queer art invites a conversation.original ↗

8 Sept 2026

Never a trans woman or a transfemme person. Definitely cis queer men. But I don’t really get jealous of other people in a resentful way. If I see something I admire/want, I just make a plan to achieve it. I save all my true craziness by putting a lot of perfectionist pressure on myself and getting competitive professionally. And really not about other people but my own standards. Was that helpful?original ↗

8 Sept 2026