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"url": "https://juliawise.net/two-ways-of-looking-at-death/", "published_at": "2022-07-18T20:41:02+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-66869fb41d68", "title": "Interview with Kat Woods: decision-making about having kids", "url": "https://juliawise.net/interview-with-kat-woods-decision-making-about-having-kids/", "published_at": "2022-07-05T14:19:59+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a05c20eb", "title": "Parenting expectations and experiences", "url": "https://juliawise.net/parenting-expectations-and-experiences/", "published_at": "2022-06-17T02:35:07+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a14b6b39", "title": "Most children of smart parents will be pretty ordinary", "url": "https://juliawise.net/most-children-of-smart-parents-will-be-pretty-ordinary/", "published_at": "2022-06-04T16:19:11+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a239b3a6", "title": "How to extend pockets", "url": "https://juliawise.net/how-to-extend-pockets/", "published_at": "2022-05-19T19:44:28+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a2af34dd", "title": "Economics: not as bad as I thought", "url": "https://juliawise.net/economics-not-as-bad-as-i-thought/", "published_at": "2022-05-13T20:14:52+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a3563a96", "title": "Messy personal stuff that affected my cause prioritization", "url": "https://juliawise.net/messy-personal-stuff-that-affected-my-cause-prioritization/", "published_at": "2022-05-05T17:27:10+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb74-c2ed-7072-9201-6686a37ddd05", "title": "Travel with a baby", "url": "https://juliawise.net/travel-with-a-baby/", "published_at": "2022-04-30T02:14:05+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854e8bfe30b", "title": "Over- and under-diagnosis of sexism", "url": "https://juliawise.net/over-and-under-diagnosis-of-sexism/", "published_at": "2022-04-21T14:46:01+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854e8fb2aaf", "title": "Divorce statistics", "url": "https://juliawise.net/divorce-statistics/", "published_at": "2022-04-15T21:59:52+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854e99120fb", "title": "Marriage advice", "url": "https://juliawise.net/marriage-advice/", "published_at": "2022-04-07T20:12:14+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854ea01f93b", "title": "School: your mileage may vary", "url": "https://juliawise.net/school-your-mileage-may-vary/", "published_at": "2022-03-30T23:34:08+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854ea0a9add", "title": "Lots of things are connected with eugenics", "url": "https://juliawise.net/lots-of-things-are-connected-with-eugenics/", "published_at": "2022-03-26T06:37:41+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854eae8b5d5", "title": "How much will pregnancy affect your health and work?", "url": "https://juliawise.net/how-much-will-pregnancy-affect-your-health-and-work/", "published_at": "2022-03-18T01:58:02+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0bb77-f4ec-73fe-a740-4854eb8fd565", "title": 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2026

Rule-following helps you not act like a psychopath original ↗

16 Aug 2026

Lyrics are arbitrary, joy isn’t original ↗

28 Jul 2026

Review of middle age: 3.5 / 4 stars original ↗

5 Jul 2026

Use explicit teaching for kids original ↗

12 Jun 2026

Spider shopping original ↗

2 Jun 2026

Seeing too much peak and not enough normalcy original ↗

22 May 2026

Book review: Girl Scout Handbook 1956 original ↗

11 May 2026

Security theater for child independence original ↗

5 Apr 2026

Underrated areas of child safety original ↗

21 Mar 2026

One-sentence versions of posts I haven’t published original ↗

11 Feb 2026

One approach to kids’ screentime original ↗

1 Feb 2026

Get physical activity while watching kids original ↗

18 Jan 2026

2025

In a discouraging world, we can afford to change things original ↗

29 Dec 2025

You don’t have to wait for a high income to have kids original ↗

27 Dec 2025

How is math going in my city’s public schools?original ↗

20 Dec 2025

The past was not that cute original ↗

6 Dec 2025

Things my kids don’t know about sex original ↗

24 Nov 2025

Air travel with only an under-seat bag original ↗

16 Nov 2025

Some hardworking dads in EA original ↗

12 Nov 2025

Parenting dilemmas I haven’t figured out: “Help” with household tasks original ↗

26 Oct 2025

Dividing responsibilities at home original ↗

19 Oct 2025

You’re not alone when life events affect work original ↗

27 Sept 2025

You can access long-lived communities original ↗

9 Sept 2025

Review of our cats: 3/5 stars original ↗

1 Sept 2025

Dreaded problems that are unlikely to kill your child original ↗

16 Aug 2025

Don’t make kids miserable about the news original ↗

10 Aug 2025

Misc parenting ideas for summer original ↗

18 Jul 2025

Runaway wives in 1700s Pennsylvania original ↗

15 Jul 2025

Conveying wealth and poverty to kids original ↗

1 Jul 2025

What is marriage for?original ↗

23 Jun 2025

Two small parenting tactics original ↗

21 Jun 2025

Why we’re still doing normal school original ↗

14 Jun 2025

Two guides on egg freezing original ↗

3 Jun 2025

Two styles of rules original ↗

27 May 2025

Admit you’re dependent on caffeine original ↗

1 May 2025

DIY preschool original ↗

30 Mar 2025

Clothing prints could be more beautiful original ↗

25 Mar 2025

Writing about non-AI topics feels weird original ↗

21 Mar 2025

Going barefoot is an option original ↗

14 Mar 2025

Ways to be part of a village original ↗

2 Mar 2025

Toward simpler funerals original ↗

16 Feb 2025

The best children’s books are easily found used online original ↗

2 Feb 2025

Mutually exclusive parenting advice original ↗

26 Jan 2025

The ugly sides of two approaches to charity original ↗

13 Jan 2025

Handling emotions better over time original ↗

2 Jan 2025

2024

You don’t have to treat pets as family members original ↗

29 Dec 2024

Developing the middle ground on polarized topics original ↗

25 Nov 2024

Inner dialogue, walking down the sidewalk original ↗

10 Oct 2024

Advice for getting along with your kids original ↗

16 Sept 2024

Two 19th-century missionary memoirs in China original ↗

24 Aug 2024

Relaxing my standards on housekeeping original ↗

31 Jul 2024

Children’s appearance is over-controlled original ↗

27 Jul 2024

Tool: “Is this causing a problem?”original ↗

25 Jul 2024

Coaching kids as they learn to climb original ↗

10 Jul 2024

Still donating half original ↗

23 Jun 2024

Conversations I often have about parenting original ↗

4 Jun 2024

How bad is alcohol?original ↗

6 May 2024

Your wedding doesn’t have to be that great original ↗

4 Mar 2024

Raising children on the eve of AI original ↗

15 Feb 2024

2023

The sugar budget original ↗

31 Dec 2023

“Sugar rush” in children seems to be confirmation bias original ↗

25 Dec 2023

Ethics of adopting a meat-eating pet original ↗

7 Dec 2023

What are the results of more parental supervision and less outdoor play?original ↗

24 Nov 2023

It’s useful when either parent can handle things original ↗

11 Nov 2023

Investing in boundaries with young kids original ↗

15 Aug 2023

Some careers are overhyped to children original ↗

6 Aug 2023

When to not trust my feelings original ↗

31 Jul 2023

The best kind of music to learn is social music original ↗

1 Jul 2023

How much to coerce children?original ↗

29 May 2023

Who is nature good for?original ↗

8 May 2023

Marrying young went well for me, part 2 original ↗

30 Apr 2023

Marrying young went well for me, part 1 original ↗

25 Apr 2023

Rereading Roald Dahl original ↗

25 Mar 2023

How much time and money does an additional child take?original ↗

19 Mar 2023

Nose / throat treatments for respiratory infections original ↗

8 Mar 2023

How did we decide to have a kid?original ↗

28 Jan 2023

Crying in museums original ↗

6 Jan 2023

2022

Breastfeeding: might be nice, might be surprisingly terrible original ↗

28 Dec 2022

Childbirth location and safety original ↗

6 Nov 2022

Consent often isn’t straightforward original ↗

24 Oct 2022

Moral aesthetics original ↗

29 Sept 2022

History of group sleeping original ↗

10 Aug 2022

Two ways of looking at death original ↗

18 Jul 2022

Interview with Kat Woods: decision-making about having kids original ↗

5 Jul 2022

Parenting expectations and experiences original ↗

17 Jun 2022

Most children of smart parents will be pretty ordinary original ↗

4 Jun 2022

How to extend pockets original ↗

19 May 2022

Economics: not as bad as I thought original ↗

13 May 2022

Messy personal stuff that affected my cause prioritization original ↗

5 May 2022

Travel with a baby original ↗

30 Apr 2022

Over- and under-diagnosis of sexism original ↗

21 Apr 2022

Divorce statistics original ↗

15 Apr 2022

Marriage advice original ↗

7 Apr 2022

School: your mileage may vary original ↗

30 Mar 2022

Lots of things are connected with eugenics original ↗

26 Mar 2022

How much will pregnancy affect your health and work?original ↗

18 Mar 2022

Childcare guide original ↗

11 Mar 2022

How we end up with different intuitions about problems original ↗

4 Mar 2022

Advice for moving to Boston original ↗

27 Feb 2022

A week in the life: where time goes with three kids original ↗

25 Feb 2022