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"2019-03-14T13:22:46+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af5ecfc44", "title": "Valentine’s Day On a College Campus: Hallmark and the Hookup Scene", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2019/02/14/valentines-day-on-a-college-campus/", "published_at": "2019-02-14T23:38:31+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af6d2828d", "title": "5 Ways Companies Can Treat Social Media Managers Better (Beyond Paying Them More)", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2019/01/23/5-ways-companies-can-treat-social-media-managers-better-beyond-paying-them-more/", "published_at": "2019-01-23T22:28:18+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af6d3c13f", "title": "Suicide Radio", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2019/01/20/suicide-radio/", "published_at": "2019-01-20T19:06:14+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af7bb41c4", "title": "Enough with the “Social Media Intern”​ Jokes", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2019/01/02/enough-with-the-social-media-intern%e2%80%8b-jokes/", "published_at": "2019-01-02T22:31:42+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af802d0ca", "title": "4 Books to Read If You’re Worried You Don’t Know How to Love", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/12/16/4-books-to-read-if-youre-worried-you-dont-know-how-to-love/", "published_at": "2018-12-16T21:26:57+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af83169cb", "title": "To Read In Case I Am Ever Murdered By a Man", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/11/20/in-case-i-am-ever-murdered-by-a-man/", "published_at": "2018-11-21T01:57:53+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c54c-bdbe-7052-85b2-cb3af9236e81", "title": "How to Feel When the Good Die Young", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/09/16/how-to-feel-when-the-good-die-young/", "published_at": "2018-09-16T15:17:37+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fab132e18", "title": "We Are All Public Figures Now", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/07/08/we-are-all-public-figures-now/", "published_at": "2018-07-08T15:33:36+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fabb3b179", "title": "Two Bisexuals Talk About Pride, Bi Erasure and Fan Fiction", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/06/22/two-bisexuals-talk-about-pride/", "published_at": "2018-06-22T20:48:58+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401faca4edcd", "title": "Watch This Charming Short Film About Having Sex After a Herpes Diagnosis", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/04/05/watch-this-charming-short-film-about-having-sex-after-a-herpes-diagnosis/", "published_at": "2018-04-05T23:14:33+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fad8b9073", "title": "How the New Facebook Algorithm Affects You, a Normal Person", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2018/01/29/how-the-new-facebook-algorithm-affects-you/", "published_at": "2018-01-30T04:41:58+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fadf0cd12", "title": "“Bad Sex,” Or The Sex We Don’t Want But Have Anyway", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2017/12/09/bad-sex-or-the-sex-we-dont-want-but-have-anyway/", "published_at": "2017-12-09T23:10:48+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fadffd3c3", "title": "“What a Wallflower Wants” Is a Ground-Breaking Romance Novel for the #MeToo Moment", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2017/12/07/what-a-wallflower-wants-metoo-moment/", "published_at": "2017-12-08T04:53:47+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401faec4250d", "title": "How I Became Internet Famous for Having Herpes — and Why I’m Retiring", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2017/11/04/internet-famous-for-having-herpes/", "published_at": "2017-11-04T20:54:50+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401faf2fa699", "title": "My Thoughts on Usher’s Herpes Lawsuit", "url": "https://elladawson.com/2017/08/09/my-thoughts-on-ushers-herpes-lawsuit/", "published_at": "2017-08-10T02:52:27+00:00" }, { "id": "01a0c555-196c-7277-adf2-401fafb18199", "title": "What The Bold Type Gets Right — and Wrong — About Social Media Abuse", "url": 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2026

Rebel Ever After is Now on Binderyoriginal ↗
14 Sept 2026

2025

$1.99 But How Are You, Really ebook sale, 6/7 only!original ↗
7 Jun 2025

2024

Bill Maher Will Never Know Happinessoriginal ↗
27 Oct 2024
Burnout Brunch – an excerpt from “But How Are You, Really”original ↗
29 Jul 2024
on hypervigilanceoriginal ↗
8 Jul 2024
Companies Aren’t Families, But Co-Workers Can Totally Be Friendsoriginal ↗
17 Jun 2024
‘But How Are You, Really’ Is On Sale Now!original ↗
4 Jun 2024
I Finally Understand Why GoodReads Drives Authors Insaneoriginal ↗
15 May 2024
‘But How Are You, Really’ Book Tour Dates!original ↗
10 May 2024
The Calmara.ai STI Screening Tool Is a Privacy Nightmareoriginal ↗
19 Mar 2024

2023

Priscilla (2023) and Being Too Youngoriginal ↗
3 Dec 2023
BUT HOW ARE YOU, REALLY Cover Reveal and Pre-Orders!original ↗
15 Nov 2023
Healing From Trauma Is Messyoriginal ↗
18 Oct 2023
Everything You Get When You Join My Patreonoriginal ↗
14 Sept 2023
What It Feels Like to Have Herpes for 10 Yearsoriginal ↗
9 May 2023
What I’ve Learned From Selling Feet Picsoriginal ↗
1 May 2023

2022

My Best Writing of 2022original ↗
31 Dec 2022
10 Books I Loved In 2022original ↗
22 Dec 2022
Qs to Help You Unpack Your Assumptions About Rape and Abuseoriginal ↗
20 Sept 2022
My Debut Novel ‘THE REUNION’ Will Be Published by Dutton Booksoriginal ↗
20 Sept 2022
The Johnny Depp Defamation Trial Will Hurt Abuse Victims for Decades to Comeoriginal ↗
18 May 2022
A Sex Writer Takes a Thirst Traporiginal ↗
18 Apr 2022
What Is “Love Bombing”?original ↗
23 Jan 2022
Britney Spears Deserves to Enjoy Her Nudesoriginal ↗
7 Jan 2022
What Is This Feeling, So Sudden and New? It’s Misandryoriginal ↗
1 Jan 2022

2021

This Is For Youoriginal ↗
27 Dec 2021
I Read 136 Books This Year. These Were My 12 Favoritesoriginal ↗
15 Dec 2021
On Holding Handsoriginal ↗
2 Nov 2021
The Best Advice I Got When I Became a Manageroriginal ↗
26 Oct 2021
Why You Should Have an Emergency Contact Person For Your Relationshipsoriginal ↗
9 Oct 2021
Introducing Bros & Prose Books! original ↗
14 Sept 2021
On Taking a Break From Menoriginal ↗
4 Sept 2021
You Deserve People Who Show Up For Youoriginal ↗
5 Aug 2021
What I Wish More People Knew About STIsoriginal ↗
31 Jul 2021
How to Have Casual Sex Without Being a Jerkoriginal ↗
13 Jul 2021
All The Fictional Sociopaths I’ve Lovedoriginal ↗
14 Jun 2021
Getting Herpes Made My Sex Life Betteroriginal ↗
18 May 2021
On Reclaiming The Word “Slut”original ↗
13 Apr 2021
You Should Like The People You’re Having Sex Withoriginal ↗
4 Apr 2021
How Much Is Your Voice Worth?original ↗
1 Apr 2021
Am I Bisexual Enough For You?original ↗
15 Mar 2021
The Kind of Girl Who Gets Herpesoriginal ↗
9 Mar 2021
Fiction: The Love Interestoriginal ↗
6 Mar 2021
Ryan From ‘Promising Young Woman’ Fucked Me Uporiginal ↗
19 Feb 2021
When Your One-Night-Stand Ignores You On Campusoriginal ↗
1 Feb 2021
BREAKUP SEXoriginal ↗
18 Jan 2021
This Is Not a Normal Work Weekoriginal ↗
7 Jan 2021

2020

Introducing “LIFE RUINER,” A Micro-Memoir About Herpes and Abusive Relationshipsoriginal ↗
21 Dec 2020
We’re All Depressed. Let’s Play The Simsoriginal ↗
4 Dec 2020
‘Happiest Season’ Breaks The Only Rom-Com Rule That Mattersoriginal ↗
27 Nov 2020
Persona Non Grata: My Experience with Adam Fossoriginal ↗
18 Nov 2020
ASK ELLA: I Have Herpes and I’m Afraid of Rejectionoriginal ↗
11 Nov 2020
ASK ELLA: Are Herpes Jokes Ever Funny?original ↗
9 Nov 2020
How Getting Herpes Prepared Me For The COVID-19 Pandemicoriginal ↗
2 Nov 2020
An Anxious Writer Joins Patreonoriginal ↗
10 Oct 2020
ASK ELLA: How Do I Tell Someone I Have Herpes?original ↗
14 Aug 2020
ASK ELLA: Should I Date Someone with Herpes?original ↗
25 Jun 2020
Should You Publicly Disclose Your Herpes Diagnosis?original ↗
13 Apr 2020
These Are Not Conditions in Which to Thriveoriginal ↗
23 Mar 2020
The Ripple Pandemic: Coronavirus and Mental Healthoriginal ↗
15 Mar 2020
Stop Publicly Defending Your Friendsoriginal ↗
3 Mar 2020
Confessions of a Burned Out Writeroriginal ↗
17 Feb 2020
Elizabeth Warren Asks the Most Important Question of 2020original ↗
4 Jan 2020

2019

14 of the Best Books I Read in 2019original ↗
19 Dec 2019
What Your Junior Staffers Wish You Knew About Managementoriginal ↗
16 Dec 2019
There Is No Cure For Burnoutoriginal ↗
18 Nov 2019
The Dollhouse Obituaryoriginal ↗
8 Sept 2019
What I Wish I’d Known About Hookup Culture Before Going to Collegeoriginal ↗
14 Aug 2019
You Deserve a Partner Who Texts You Backoriginal ↗
4 Jul 2019
Five Years Later, Wesleyan Is Still The Best Decision I’ve Ever Madeoriginal ↗
28 May 2019
I Am Not a Huggeroriginal ↗
25 Apr 2019
Stop Calling It “Casual Sex”original ↗
28 Mar 2019
Herpes And Shame, Six Years Lateroriginal ↗
14 Mar 2019
Valentine’s Day On a College Campus: Hallmark and the Hookup Sceneoriginal ↗
14 Feb 2019
5 Ways Companies Can Treat Social Media Managers Better (Beyond Paying Them More)original ↗
23 Jan 2019
Suicide Radiooriginal ↗
20 Jan 2019
Enough with the “Social Media Intern”​ Jokesoriginal ↗
2 Jan 2019

2018

4 Books to Read If You’re Worried You Don’t Know How to Loveoriginal ↗
16 Dec 2018
To Read In Case I Am Ever Murdered By a Manoriginal ↗
21 Nov 2018
How to Feel When the Good Die Youngoriginal ↗
16 Sept 2018
We Are All Public Figures Noworiginal ↗
8 Jul 2018
Two Bisexuals Talk About Pride, Bi Erasure and Fan Fictionoriginal ↗
22 Jun 2018
Watch This Charming Short Film About Having Sex After a Herpes Diagnosisoriginal ↗
5 Apr 2018
How the New Facebook Algorithm Affects You, a Normal Personoriginal ↗
30 Jan 2018

2017

“Bad Sex,” Or The Sex We Don’t Want But Have Anywayoriginal ↗
9 Dec 2017
“What a Wallflower Wants” Is a Ground-Breaking Romance Novel for the #MeToo Momentoriginal ↗
8 Dec 2017
How I Became Internet Famous for Having Herpes — and Why I’m Retiringoriginal ↗
4 Nov 2017
My Thoughts on Usher’s Herpes Lawsuitoriginal ↗
10 Aug 2017
What The Bold Type Gets Right — and Wrong — About Social Media Abuseoriginal ↗
22 Jul 2017
Book Review: Roadhouse Blues by Malin Jamesoriginal ↗
11 Jul 2017
The Year I Didn’t, Couldn’t and Desperately Wanted to Writeoriginal ↗
6 Jul 2017
The Real Reason I’m Not Leaving Twitteroriginal ↗
8 Jun 2017
Why I Celebrate The Day I Was Diagnosed With Herpesoriginal ↗
29 Apr 2017
It’s STD Awareness Month 2017. Please Show Up For Us This Yearoriginal ↗
3 Apr 2017
In Defense of the Fail Videooriginal ↗
24 Feb 2017
Milo Yiannopoulos, Bill Maher, and The Voices We’ve Lost Since The Electionoriginal ↗
18 Feb 2017
I’m Going to Listen to “Fight Song” on Repeat to Raise Money for Planned Parenthoodoriginal ↗
24 Jan 2017

2016

10 Essays I Wrote In 2016 That Taught Me Who I Amoriginal ↗
30 Dec 2016
How to Create the Social Media Life You Want in 2017original ↗
20 Dec 2016
What Herpes Activism Looks Like In Trump’s Americaoriginal ↗
1 Dec 2016
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